definition
is blogging time :) topic? definition?
definition of what?
Definition of meishan.
meishan's 10 definitions of moving on:
1. Staring at places where both of u have been to. u no longer tear, but smile.
2. Looking at couples holding hands or behaving sweetly, u no longer curse or run away, but you bless them.
3. Thinking of those memories, you no longer feel the heart pain, but you feel the sweetness in there. you know you have grown and matured.
4. Meeting him in person and you no longer stare at him in search of the answer to that uncertainty. You smile and wish that he is happy too.
5. Talking to him on the phone without odd silences and enjoying that special conversation.
6. Listening to love songs once again without tearing and believing that your turn will come soon.
7. Blessing him when you know that he is happily attached even though the pair of hands he is holding onto, is no longer yours.
8. Waving good bye to him without turning your head back again to look at him.
9. Showing him the pair of hands you are holding onto.
10. You find no need in telling anyone that you have moved on. because, moving on is silent.
What is your definition then?
alrights. let's take a break for now. some good news and bad news to share:
Bad news: my best friend at luge has broken up with her boyfriend. i only sensed it when i logged onto facebook today. seeing their shoutouts and sensing that things are not right, i decided to give her a call. immediately upon hearing my voice, she teared. she lost the ability to talk. she is one of the most cheerful girl i know, she is one of the unemotional girl i know. i never thought she will be this upset with this breakup. she never thought so herself too. the guy decided to say good bye because he knows that there is no future in them. he loves her still. we all know how much they love each other. but things are really much complicated for them. one is malay and the other one is chinese. Retarded, i wish you all the best okay? i promise we will be there for each other okay? don't cry anymore. be strong. there is no one here to take care of us anymore. so, we must be strong and stay strong on our beliefs.
Good news: My air stewardess cousin and her baby boy reconciled with the dad:) u know how happy i am for you? i almost teared. this family is complete again. they have decided to move out and they are now staying in their own rented apartment. yes, just the 3 of them. you have my blessings. no matter what tough the road gets in the future, i know you can do it. because you have your baby boy. because your baby boy needs you.
after all these important life lessons that i have learnt with especially the one that i have experienced myself, meishan has changed.
she no longer hates guys. she means it. when a couple breaks up, it is not always the man's fault. he is definitely not always a bastard. if there is a valid reason, he is just being responsible. if there is no valid reason, he is just being selfish. no fault of any parties. sometimes, the woman must also reflect upon herself isn't it?
reason for him to let go first? is it because you did not express your love well enough? take him for granted? not making him feel needed? think it is okay for girls to get angry while he cannot be? demanding too much? over possessive?
reason for him to cheat in you? is it because you don't even bother to make yourself look attractive? last time you went for facial? last time you wore perfume? it is because you rejected his affection? or is it you are too naive in over trusting him?
really, to all heart broken souls: let go of the hatred in you and you will be a happier person.
okay, enough of updates. back to definition.
how does Meishan defines Happiness?
when you are couples without kids:
1. Lying on the beach together to see sunrise and sunset. his hands with her hands holding on tightly.
2. Tapping on his shoulder and screaming very loudly, Can see the shooting stars? force him to make a wish together while you secretly looked at him, wishing that you were part of the wish.
3. Lying on the sofa and watching shows together. eating potato chips together with coke.
4. When you fall sick, you wake up only to find him smiling at you. he tells you: I have been with you all these while.
5. Wake up in the morning to only realise that he is already awaked. but, he did not wake you up. instead, he looks at you with a smile. when you ask him what happened, he just smile and says: " Nothing. I just feel like watching the way you sleep."
6. When you get stuck in a lift, you called him immediately and only to realise that he is the first one you see when the lift door opens again.
7. When you both quarrel in the rain, but ended up kissing each other and laughing at each other at how silly u guys can be. with him sayanging your head.
8. With you watching some stupid show with some stupid guy cheating on their girlfriend. With him saying: I will never leave you. With you saying: What if she gives you one million? With him saying: Maybe for that i will consider. With you staring at him and saying: I will do that too if it is David Beckham.
9. With him singing you a song on that guitar when it is completely out of tuned. a song that is instantly composed. this should be how it goes: "Oh meishan. oh meishan....... oh meishan..... oh meishan..." basically it just goes on and on like this. i think i will be pretty satisfied with that.
10. With both of you completing to run up the staircase. the loser gets kisses from the winner.
oh there are so much so much. how am i feeing right now?
a bit sour sour.
haha
will continue the post about my definition of Happiness when you are married with kids tomorrow.
anyway, to end of this blog, I have learnt that LOOKS ARE DECEIVING.
In my chapter with him, both our looks are deceiving.
He looks like the King of players.
whereas I got the nickname from my friends. I am called the fuck face- the kind of girl that basically does one night stand as a hobby.
but guess what?
We hold family values so dear to our heart.
We don't cheat when we are in a relationship.
We are 2 emotional kids.
good nights.:)
definition of what?
Definition of meishan.
meishan's 10 definitions of moving on:
1. Staring at places where both of u have been to. u no longer tear, but smile.
2. Looking at couples holding hands or behaving sweetly, u no longer curse or run away, but you bless them.
3. Thinking of those memories, you no longer feel the heart pain, but you feel the sweetness in there. you know you have grown and matured.
4. Meeting him in person and you no longer stare at him in search of the answer to that uncertainty. You smile and wish that he is happy too.
5. Talking to him on the phone without odd silences and enjoying that special conversation.
6. Listening to love songs once again without tearing and believing that your turn will come soon.
7. Blessing him when you know that he is happily attached even though the pair of hands he is holding onto, is no longer yours.
8. Waving good bye to him without turning your head back again to look at him.
9. Showing him the pair of hands you are holding onto.
10. You find no need in telling anyone that you have moved on. because, moving on is silent.
What is your definition then?
alrights. let's take a break for now. some good news and bad news to share:
Bad news: my best friend at luge has broken up with her boyfriend. i only sensed it when i logged onto facebook today. seeing their shoutouts and sensing that things are not right, i decided to give her a call. immediately upon hearing my voice, she teared. she lost the ability to talk. she is one of the most cheerful girl i know, she is one of the unemotional girl i know. i never thought she will be this upset with this breakup. she never thought so herself too. the guy decided to say good bye because he knows that there is no future in them. he loves her still. we all know how much they love each other. but things are really much complicated for them. one is malay and the other one is chinese. Retarded, i wish you all the best okay? i promise we will be there for each other okay? don't cry anymore. be strong. there is no one here to take care of us anymore. so, we must be strong and stay strong on our beliefs.
Good news: My air stewardess cousin and her baby boy reconciled with the dad:) u know how happy i am for you? i almost teared. this family is complete again. they have decided to move out and they are now staying in their own rented apartment. yes, just the 3 of them. you have my blessings. no matter what tough the road gets in the future, i know you can do it. because you have your baby boy. because your baby boy needs you.
after all these important life lessons that i have learnt with especially the one that i have experienced myself, meishan has changed.
she no longer hates guys. she means it. when a couple breaks up, it is not always the man's fault. he is definitely not always a bastard. if there is a valid reason, he is just being responsible. if there is no valid reason, he is just being selfish. no fault of any parties. sometimes, the woman must also reflect upon herself isn't it?
reason for him to let go first? is it because you did not express your love well enough? take him for granted? not making him feel needed? think it is okay for girls to get angry while he cannot be? demanding too much? over possessive?
reason for him to cheat in you? is it because you don't even bother to make yourself look attractive? last time you went for facial? last time you wore perfume? it is because you rejected his affection? or is it you are too naive in over trusting him?
really, to all heart broken souls: let go of the hatred in you and you will be a happier person.
okay, enough of updates. back to definition.
how does Meishan defines Happiness?
when you are couples without kids:
1. Lying on the beach together to see sunrise and sunset. his hands with her hands holding on tightly.
2. Tapping on his shoulder and screaming very loudly, Can see the shooting stars? force him to make a wish together while you secretly looked at him, wishing that you were part of the wish.
3. Lying on the sofa and watching shows together. eating potato chips together with coke.
4. When you fall sick, you wake up only to find him smiling at you. he tells you: I have been with you all these while.
5. Wake up in the morning to only realise that he is already awaked. but, he did not wake you up. instead, he looks at you with a smile. when you ask him what happened, he just smile and says: " Nothing. I just feel like watching the way you sleep."
6. When you get stuck in a lift, you called him immediately and only to realise that he is the first one you see when the lift door opens again.
7. When you both quarrel in the rain, but ended up kissing each other and laughing at each other at how silly u guys can be. with him sayanging your head.
8. With you watching some stupid show with some stupid guy cheating on their girlfriend. With him saying: I will never leave you. With you saying: What if she gives you one million? With him saying: Maybe for that i will consider. With you staring at him and saying: I will do that too if it is David Beckham.
9. With him singing you a song on that guitar when it is completely out of tuned. a song that is instantly composed. this should be how it goes: "Oh meishan. oh meishan....... oh meishan..... oh meishan..." basically it just goes on and on like this. i think i will be pretty satisfied with that.
10. With both of you completing to run up the staircase. the loser gets kisses from the winner.
oh there are so much so much. how am i feeing right now?
a bit sour sour.
haha
will continue the post about my definition of Happiness when you are married with kids tomorrow.
anyway, to end of this blog, I have learnt that LOOKS ARE DECEIVING.
In my chapter with him, both our looks are deceiving.
He looks like the King of players.
whereas I got the nickname from my friends. I am called the fuck face- the kind of girl that basically does one night stand as a hobby.
but guess what?
We hold family values so dear to our heart.
We don't cheat when we are in a relationship.
We are 2 emotional kids.
good nights.:)

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